Generational Convergence

On the fly…so I am not going to provide stats and stuff.

However, I just want to speak from a 30,000 foot up perspective about something positive. When I get frustrated about all the struggling I see and challenges I feel we face as a collective, I turn to what we have to feel hopeful about.

And one of those things is the massive convergence of multiple generations of folks all moving toward making the world better. Whether that is aging Baby Boomers who want to return to their values from the days of the world-changing 60s or young folks so acutely aware of issues without being burdened by years of bitterness…or folks in the middle learning that a life of meaning is more than money and requires us to give and volunteer toward a better world. No matter the generation (or the motivation), I am hopeful that we will see a convergence of generations all cooperating with their different capacities and knowledge to co-create a better world for all of us.

Add to this the tremendous opportunity of the rollover of wealth. Plus the rising emergence of open values and collective intelligence…and I think there is reason to hope. There is a huge shift we must make to become a world capable of supporting human thriving…but it is possible. And the will power is gathering momentum.

Bali Who

Pulled from Grist email today:

‘Tis the Season to Be Bali
High drama leads to compromise at international climate meeting

After days of bitter fighting and an overtime stretch filled with twists, turns, and tears, world leaders on Saturday agreed on a broad plan for developing a new global climate treaty by 2009. The “Bali roadmap” calls for measurable and verifiable steps by developing nations as well as industrialized ones, and calls for developing nations to get credit for protecting their tropical forests. The European Union had pushed for industrialized countries to commit to cuts in greenhouse-gas emissions of 25 to 40 percent below 1990 levels by 2020, but the U.S., Canada, and Japan balked, so the final text just says that “deep cuts” in emissions are needed. The U.S. also announced that it could not support language committing rich nations to provide technological help to poorer ones; that move elicited boos, hisses, and an impassioned plea from a Papua New Guinea representative to the U.S.: “If you’re not willing to lead, then get out of the way.” Believe it or not, the U.S. then did get out of the way, changing its position and saying it would support the agreement. Still, just hours after the deal was finalized, the White House expressed “serious concerns” about it. Wouldn’t want to get a reputation for being cooperative.

sources: The Washington Post, BBC, Associated Press, The New York Times, The Telegraph, Reuters, Reuters
new in Gristmill: Professor Andrew Light laments the unnecessary line in the sand the U.S. has drawn in Bali

‘Tis the Stuff Season!

Which means it is an ideal time to grab a cup of tea and watch this: http://www.storyofstuff.com/

Many years ago I toyed with the idea of writing a paper about how flea markets and garage sales are forms of “resistance” to consumer culture. And in a way they are, as the sites of production do not benefit from the “resale” of goods through these avenues. But still, it perpetuates the very notion of happiness through consumption that leads us toward mass consumption of anti-depressants along with all the other stuff that can never fill the void of our disconnected materialist lives.

I don’t watch tv and I avoid ads on websites, sticking to a space on the internet unmarred by flashing lights. I still consume. I am not wholly free. But I can see some lights shining. One comes from giving–when we give or act as a gift to others–all the people (giver, receiver, and observers) experience positive chemical flow in their bodies. Self-made anti-depressants. Give and get happy!

Coffee beans and change managment

A few years ago my brother, Mark Luther, posted something like this on his website. I was so moved; I shared it with my dear, wonderful, and inspired friend, Anne Marie Bellavance. And it has been a theme in our friendship ever since.

A young woman went to her mother and told her about her life and how things were so hard for her. She did not know how she was going to make it and wanted to give up . She was tired of fighting and struggling. It seemed as one problem was solved, a new one arose.

Her mother took her to the kitchen. She filled three pots with water and placed each on a high fire. Soon the pots came to boil. In the first she placed carrots, in the second she placed eggs, and in the last she placed ground coffee beans. She let them sit and boil; without saying a word.

In about twenty minutes she turned off the burners. She fished the carrots out and placed them in a bowl. She pulled the eggs out and placed them in a bowl.

Then she ladled the coffee out and placed it in a bowl. Turning to her daughter, she asked, “Tell me what you see.”

“Carrots, eggs, and coffee,” she replied.

Her mother brought her closer and asked her to feel the carrots. She did and noted that they were soft. The mother then asked the daughter to take an egg and break it. After pulling off the shell, she observed the hard boiled egg.

Finally, the mother asked the daughter to sip the coffee. The daughter smiled as she tasted its rich aroma. The daughter then asked, “What does it mean, mother?”

Her mother explained that each of these objects had faced the same adversity: boiling water. Each reacted differently. The carrot went in strong, hard, and unrelenting. However, after being subjected to the boiling water, it softened and became weak. The egg had been fragile. Its thin outer shell had protected its liquid interior, but after sitting through the boiling water, its inside became hardened. The ground coffee beans were unique, however. After they were in the boiling water, they had changed the water.

“Which are you?” she asked her daughter. “When adversity knocks on your door, how do you respond? Are you a carrot, an egg or a coffee bean?

Think of this: Which am I? Am I the carrot that seems strong, but with pain and adversity do I wilt and become soft and lose my strength?

Am I the egg that starts with a malleable heart, but changes with the heat? Did I have a fluid spirit, but after a death, a breakup, a financial hardship or some other trial, have I become hardened and stiff? Does my shell look the same, but on the inside am I bitter and tough with a stiff spirit and hardened heart?

Or am I like the coffee bean? The bean actually changes the hot water–the very circumstance that brings the pain. When the water gets hot, it releases the fragrance and flavor. If you are like the bean, when things are at their worst, you get better and change the situation around you.

When the hour is the darkest and trials are their greatest, do you elevate yourself to another level? How do you handle adversity? Are you a carrot, an egg or a coffee bean?

Inspired Philanthropy

Today, we release the website for the forthcoming 3rd edition of Inspired Philanthropy. Phil blogged it.

I have been honored to participate in the development of this edition. Also, Tracy has asked that I refer to myself as co-founder of Inspired Legacies, because of my involvement in some of the development, creation, and projects of Inspired Legacies since August of 2005. I am deeply honored by and grateful for this designation!

Now through November 6th, a Donor Diva Challenge, allows anyone who buys Inspired Philanthropy, to designate a free copy to a nonprofit of their choice! Buy the book and give the book to a nonprofit. Give the gift of transformational giving.

And check out the website, not just because I worked so hard on it either! There are loads of resources–exercises and worksheets, the whole appendix! Pdfs, uploaded and available free for you to use!

Also, note, National Philanthropy Day is November 15th!

Honored by Razoo

A friend pointed me to “A Little Thanks Is In Order to Razoos Top 25 Members“.

I am honored to be celebrated with such change agents and collaborators.

I also must acknowledge that this comes as a result of the connections formed and work done at Omidyar.net community, which transferred over to Razoo, allowing me to connect with many people and immediately jump in to many groups and causes. It was a reputation transfer of sorts. It was certainly not because I have been super active on Razoo. I have been focused full-blast for the last month with a brilliant and valuable project which I will announce tomorrow. (hint, hint)

Green Dinners

Recently an amazing network weaver friend, Steve “Habib” Rose, passed away unexpectedly. I have been thinking about this idea for many months, as it relates to his efforts around neighborhoods connecting. And I decided I best get started! Please feel free, if you knew Habib, to host a Green Dinner in his name. Suggested topics for conversation might be peace and neighborhood networking.

Now is the time. Connect to those you care about and take action on what matters to you.

Green Dinners allow people in our local community to come together, not only to enjoy each others company, but also to bring up relevant issues occurring in our neighborhood that we’d like to change. It’s a great opportunity to meet people, strengthen friendships, eat nourishing food, and to get in touch with your community.

Green Dinners first initiated with Beyond Today.

I think this is a brilliant idea. After attending a gathering in Houston of local spiritual folks to talk about spirituality facilitated by the book and cards of Amazing Faith of Texas, I thought, why are we not doing this for green issues?

What you need to host a green dinner:

* Space to host dinners
* list of neighbors or community members to invite
* invitation (may or may not request food be shared and be local, fair-trade, organic)
* open attitude

Connect face-to-face around the issues you care about and discuss them over a shared meal, potluck style.

Please host or attend a Green Dinner in your community. Invite your friends over to discuss green issues, whatever that means to you.

For now, please use the http://www.wiserearth.org/group/GreenDinners/ to share and discuss. I encourage you to post photos and highlights of conversations. By naming these events and conversations, I hope you will help me spread the word about the importance of a Greener World. The more we talk about it, name it, expand it, the more it spirals out into the world, inspiring and evolving this great work of ours.

Opportunities to help Green Dinners: help write a standard invitation, help create simple guide to facilitation of conversation, sponsor dinners and share online about them. Get other people involved.

Young People of Color with Wealth

The CORE community of young people of color with wealth is hosting its first gatherings.
Please forward.

* Do you want to make a difference in your community? Want to see real change in this country?
* Are you planning on using your money to fight racism, poverty, and injustice?
* Do you want to talk with other people of color about money, privilege, and giving?

If so, download the invitations to TWO UPCOMING EVENTS:

DINNER: For Young People Of Color With Wealth (dinner invitation pdf)
Wednesday, October 17, New York City
An informal community space where we can support and challenge each other to align our resources with our values. Dinners are hosted in homes, and are free.

WORKSHOP: STRATEGIC GIVING For Young People Of Color With Wealth (workshop invitation pdf)
Fri (eve) / Sat (day), November 2 – 3, New York City
A workshop for young people of color with financial wealth who want to increase the impact of our resources in furthering social justice. $75, includes meals.

To Register: www.resourcegeneration.org

CALL FOR INTERVIEWEES: (Please Forward)
Sharing Privilege: Young People of Color with Wealth Speak Out!

Are you a young person of color with wealth or do you know someone who is? Help others by sharing your story! You can have your name published or choose to remain anonymous. This booklet will reveal the untold stories of young people of color with wealth. For more info.

Find out more about CORE (Catalyzing Our Resources for Equity), a project of Resource Generation

Questions: Contact Sam at 413-369-6010 or sam@resourcegeneration.org

Network Weaver, Habib, passes on

I am very sad about the surprising news that Steve “Habib” Rose has passed away. He was an inspiration to me and a delightful friend. We still had projects in the air, and I feel hesitant to do the work without Habib. I first met him in Seattle at an event for Wiser Earth where Paul Hawken spoke about Wiser Earth and Blessed Unrest.

In honor of a fabulous network weaver, please contact someone you know (best if it is a weak tie) just to do it, just to connect and see what happens.

A memorial celebration of the life of Steve Habib Rose will be held on Sunday, October 7th from 4 to 5:30 pm at University Friends Meeting, 4001 9th Avenue NE, Seattle, WA, to be followed by social networking time.

Habib dedicated his life and his work to building connections among us. He moved us, both individually and collectively, to work joyfully for a deeper community. His vision, humility, generosity, justice seeking,
loving-kindness, network weaving and his phenomenal hugs inspired the many communities he graced with his presence.

Habib, may your presence live on. May we all learn from your spirit.

Donations to the Duwamish Nation are gratefully accepted in lieu of flowers.

Please also contibuting your reflections on Habib to an on-line memorial that can be found at http://wiserearth.org/group/habibsgarden

Field Building: Digital Media and Learning

This summer I discussed field building with Ben Stokes. He works in the Digital Media and Learning program at the MacArthur Foundation. In this post, I will insert both what he shared with me and my additions and interpretations. He talked about how field building often incorporates existing threads, weaving them together. For example, games, cognitive science, learning theory, media, and the internet may all be existing pieces that unite around Digital Media and Learning. One approach Ben mentioned is building this field by working within privately owned and operated spaces such as My Space and Google. And that may reach audiences effectively, and yet there is more to be done.

Bridge-building offers a weaving opportunity that binds the threads together. Ben shared that one way to build bridges is convening people, and a foundation has the power to do that with ease. People want to be associated with or be beneficiaries of the foundation, so they want to attend gatherings sponsored by the foundation. So the foundation can support events selectively bringing people together with the call to collaboration face to face. Another opportunity is the written word. Ben pointed out that journals about the field create branding, messaging and a body of documentation for the field. In some sense, field building is about brand building. How do we get this brand adopted?

Building knowledge within the field creates a gravity, a magnetism for the field. Creating a knowledge network website offers a common repository, events related to the field, a directory of people, and access to articles about the field. There is also, according to Ben, a need to coordinate public discourse regarding the field. Using a communication team to assist with clear messaging that is consistent and creates a coherent field. Ben said they work with their grantees to use common languaging which helps bring the threads together from the many different existing threads/fields. If we are all talking about the same thing but we call it by different names, we can’t clearly recognize the convergence of thinking about that thing. And recognizing common ground and increasing visibility is critical to developing recognition of the emerging field.

Press coverage is also vital to developing visibility. And the message to the press needs to be consistent too. From all parties. If I google the field or a core idea of the field, there should be some degree of uniformity in what I find or the field lacks coherence.

Network weaving, a favorite topic of mine, also plays a significant role in field-building. Asking grantees who they would like to have involved, making connections between then, and rewarding introductions and collaborations helps weave the relationships within the field, naturally leading to greater cohesion of the ideas and practices. It also facilitates identity development of the field and its practitioners. As a foundation, Ben noted, there must be care around the power relationships of funder to grantee and potential grantees. Care must be taken to grow and emerge something that feels vital to participants and acts as more than a financial incentive. To grow the field is to open new eyes. Yes, the foundation selects who they think should be there, but it tries to do this based on the advice of the community itself through a range of advisory boards and outside reviewers. One benefit is that participants who attend can often open more “edgy” conversations without the power dynamics that restrict foundations’ public voices.

I asked how we would know if we are successful. Ben warns that we not pursue field-building as an inherent good, because all change has unintended consequences. Field building is a transformative process. Looking for metrics about whether it is going well, here are several observation techniques:

  • mapping the topical linking of websites (which happens visibly if we are all tagging and naming with common terms and definitions)
  • mapping the social networking of people (both through citations and social networking associations) and watching for the weaving of the network using social network analysis through time
  • listening to the network to see how they are thinking about the field and how they talk about themselves–looking for coherence of identity and language

Field building may be called by other names. Some influencing strings that inform it:

  • movement building
  • trends and tipping points
  • network theory
  • community of practice

Many thanks to Ben Stokes for the time and conversation. I am eager to see how the field of Digital Media and Learning flourishes.

I am conducting more research and continuing to reflect and write– so stay tuned for:

  • Foundations and the Role of Philanthropy in Field Building
  • A Whole New Mind of Field Building: Design, Play, Symphony, Narrative, Empathy, and Meaning in Network White Spaces
  • Persuading the Field: Applying Influence and Motivating Emergence
  • Field Building and Social Change: Tipping Points, Phase Transitions, and Global Crisis
  • Sticky Fields: Simple, Unexpected, Concrete, Credible, Emotional, and Narrative