Solution-Focus
How much time do you spend in each of the following states?
- Oh, look, that isn’t working! See how it isn’t working? Did you notice this part over here doesn’t work either?
- Hey, I am trying to fix this, can you hand me a lever?
Many of us get fascinated by the first state. Point to all the facets of what is not working. And there is a way that is valuable, as we design new ways of working that address and transform those issues. We need to know what we are looking at.
And, we can get lost in seeing challenges. Stuck in a state of awe and overwhelm. When do you pick up a lever and start creating something in response to the challenges you perceive? What stops you from doing more of that? Who can you ask to help you get started?
I admire those go-getters that not only fix or improve something but also totally trick it out. My mom didn’t just make me a prom dress, she used the scraps to make a cape, a purse, and a garter (all while I was doing my hair). No, I am not posting pictures. 😛
Avoid the overwhelm of what isn’t working. Focus on a solution you can dig into. And see what you can do to trick it out and make use of what you have.
I would love to hear your stories about making more of your resources and the power of solution-focus. Please share with us.
Solution-focus – are you taking action or taking in crisis? http://nurture.biz/2009/11/solution-focus/
Solution-focus – are you taking action or taking in crisis? http://bit.ly/7rgBuw great Q by @nurturegirl
Solution-Focus
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great orienting question by/@NurtureGirl