It is a female thing There is a difference between people qualified by a ton of credentials and people who make the world work better. And that thing is a female thing, if I may say so. That thing is a way of being in the world. It is a way of coming from the heart and spirit instead of solely from the mind.
I know the power of this thing because it is a critical difference in my business. People can hire editors and coaches with more credentials. Yes, but when people hire me â€” I have found â€” it is because they embrace my way of being. They can sense that by working with me, I will honor who they are and what they are trying to achieve. It is the difference between being good (doing all the right things) and being genuine, authentic, and unique.
That is not to say that there are not men out there who have this quality of being genuine and heartfelt. I know some. There are. However, I see far too many people fooled by marketing buzz words, and the people I work with arenâ€™t. They want the real thing. They want authenticity. Theirs. Mine. Ours. It isnâ€™t all soft and gooey necessarily. Even that can be corny, cheesy, silly. Puff.
The mind part is easy. Logic. Language. Clarity. What is hard is the stuff that has to be real. Something I think women are good at. The qualities that build long lasting relationships filled with love. These come from the heart, the soul, and even deep down in the gut. They canâ€™t be faked. And most people canâ€™t be fooled.
This is where you come when you realize money is simply one form of exchange, and a pretty shallow one at that. This is where you come when you want to be acknowledged within yourself and by others for your unique contribution to the world and your loving intentions.
So, if you want to spend some time being yourself, contact me. But leave your coat and all the outward â€œmaleâ€ signs of success at the door. Letâ€™s sit over a cup of tea and discover who you are and what you want. I am really curious.